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No Deposit No Return

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Speaking of goals and dreams, have you ever noticed there is no such thing as coasting or middle ground? It is a fact of life that you can’t coast or stay in the middle ground without you noticing you’re slipping behind and everyone else is moving ahead.

Abraham Hicks usually ends her seminars with the idea that we are perfectly incomplete.  It’s true.  Therefore there is no coasting.  There is no middle ground- only sewing seed in the good ground of being perfectly incomplete.

So let’s take a quick look at the pillars in your life:  spiritual, health, finance, career, service, and friends and family.  Is there an area that after taking an honest look at you would say that you’ve been coasting?  That you’ve stopped funding its spiritual bank account?  Well, today make a deposit and move back into growth cycle instead of living off the interested that you funded to date.

Make sure you hear us on bbsradio.com/LifeWithTheGirlfriends.  We are live on Sunday nights at 7:00pm CT.  You can always get us on itunes or check out our archives.

And pick up a copy of our book, “The Clutterfly Effect.-Tweak Your Way to Total Transformation by Decluttering Your Life.”  You can get it at Amazon.

Dare to Dream!

-Christine Marie M.A.

Christine Marie is a Psychotherapist, a Certified Life Optimization Coach, #1 Bestselling Author of “The Clutterfly Effect-Tweak Your Way to Total Transformation By Decluttering Your Life” and Radio Co-Host o fLife With The Girlfriends on BBSRadio.com .

 

Motivate then Dominate

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Just wondering.   When you have some pretty big goals that aren’t going to happen over night, what keeps you motivated?  What keeps you motivated when the obstacles hit or progress is going slower than you anticipated?

Let’s assume you burned the boats.  What I mean by that is you made a quality decision.  You’re not going back or giving up.  So how do you traverse those down times?  What do you do when momentum stalls and motivation wanes?

Here’s three suggestions.  Remember, that you are coming from a place of victory.  That means all you have to do is walk through the plan.  Knowing you are coming from a place of victory means your attitude can be one of achievement and success not disappointment and discouragement (which are always dream killers).

Also, be comfortable with the small failures along the way.  Author Seth Godin said that he probably has more successes than the average guy but probably twice as many failures as well.  So get use to failing.  And remember that fail stands for Forge Ahead In Leverage:)

And, fast forward your life 2 years from now.  What would it look like if you just kept moving toward your dream?  What does it look like five years from if you never stopped regardless of what happens?  Now see your life 5 years from now if you decide to quite.

There is really no choice but to NOT QUITE.  Remember it is not a nine inning game.  You don’t quit until you win.  This is when you dominate.

 

Make sure you hear us on bbsradio.com/LifeWithTheGirlfriends.  We are live on Sunday nights at 7:00pm CT.  You can always get us on itunes or check out our archives.

And pick up a copy of our book, “The Clutterfly Effect.-Tweak Your Way to Total Transformation by Decluttering Your Life.”  You can get it at Amazon.

Dare to Dream!

-Christine Marie M.A.

Christine Marie is a Psychotherapist, a Certified Life Optimization Coach, #1 Bestselling Author of “The Clutterfly Effect-Tweak Your Way to Total Transformation By Decluttering Your Life” and Radio Co-Host ofLife With The Girlfriends on BBSRadio.com .

Seeds of Greatness

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Hello Snowflakes,

Yes, I’m talking to you.  I’m here to say that in the midst of your crazy busy lives, bills to pay, oil to get changed, groceries to be shopped, teeth to be cleaned….there is no other like you.  You may feel like your just another rat in the rat race.  Or you may feel like your just another hamster on the wheel that goes round and round.  But may I remind you, Snowflake, that you are unique.

From the very first day you came on this planet, deep within you, were planted seeds of greatness.   What I mean by that is you have a purpose and a destiny much bigger than the hamster wheel or the rat race.  What if I told you that you were meant for times like this?  What if I told you it is time for you to wake up and realize every day counts and every day matters?

There’s a problem only you can solve.  There’s a book that only you can write.  There’s a song that only you can sing.  There’s a prayer that only you can pray.  I challenge you to find what that is.  This will show up for you in the tiny seeds of your desires.  Start listening to that quiet still voice deep inside of you.  It may be saying it is time.  Yes, do it for you.  Do it for humanity.  But, most of all, do it for the honor and glory of the one that created you.

And yes Snowflakes are beautiful.  So Snowflakes, don’t let your dreams melt away.

Here’s a little song for us Day Dreamers.

Dare to Dream!

-Christine Marie M.A.

Christine Marie is a Psychotherapist, a Certified Life Optimization Coach, #1 Bestselling Author of “The Clutterfly Effect-Tweak Your Way to Total Transformation By Decluttering Your Life” and Radio Co-Host ofLife With The Girlfriends on BBSRadio.com .